The Elephant in the Room: Can We Really Colour-block the Race Issue?

“The most potent weapon in the hands of the oppressor is the mind of the oppressed.”– Steven Bantu Biko

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Over the past few weeks, I have witnessed people around me being on the receiving end of racial slurs which could otherwise be interpreted as ignorant, narrow-minded or narcissistic.

Of course, this isn’t news. Discourse on racial discrimination is an on-going part of South Africa’s history and one is constantly confronted with the reality that the rainbow nation is rather a superficial farce,with tensions simmering underneath.

As opposed to the light-hearted manner in which comedians address stereotypes attached to different racial groups, it is especially challenging to take on the same approach if one emanates from circumstances that render them disadvantaged because of the colour of their skin. You cannot simply laugh it off.

I believe this is what informed US First Lady Michelle Obama’s speech delivered before graduates at Tuskegee University-a speech rendered “anti-American” and racist because it encouraged black graduates to rise above their circumstances.

Again, this won’t materialise if the world keeps skirting around burning issues and viewing any act of motivation towards economic, social and political emancipation for historical victims of racial discrimination as an attack on other groups.

It is, and should be a good fight-a fight for what is just and equitable.

Anyway, if I may back-track a little: On one occassion when someone I know was told that…well, she can’t blush because she is black, she took offense. Without going too far in my own opinion about the individual who uttered the words, I was more inclined to take a step back and remember that people don’t GIVE offense. On the contrary, people TAKE offense in response to a range of perceived offensive stimuli.

More importantly, the realization that dawned on me was that as Africans; as so-called black people we remain sensitive about the colour of our skin. This to the point where it seems an insult to be referred as such by anyone from a different racial background. It suggests that not even the black man is comfortable in his own skin because then the natural response would be “of course I am!

Our self-hatred rings even clearer when we attack migrants from the continent (and unwittingly our own compatriots) based on the perception that they are too “dark” to be South Africans. Therefore, most of our lives are spent in a defensive and trust deficient mode.

The reality is that the world’s expectation of the black man is to “deal with it”- and that is, of course paramount if our desire is to start building a positive legacy for future generations. However, it shouldn’t be a rushed process that will allow historical oppressors to feel better about themselves. It is a process that will require (without shame or justification) constant and consistent messaging around positive change.

At the same time we must be wary of allowing a defeatist attitude to fester.

In the words of Steve Biko, “Merely by describing yourself as black you have started on a road towards emancipation, you have committed yourself to fight against all forces that seek to use your blackness as a stamp that marks you out as a subservient being”.

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Gomotsegang Motswatswe

"No man is free who is not a master of himself"- Epicetus

One thought on “The Elephant in the Room: Can We Really Colour-block the Race Issue?”

  1. Hello: Ms Motswatswe.

    “I will call you Gomo”
    Ma’am I believe that this topic is so close to my heart than any prayer being preyed by any religion in the universe, maybe it is because I too, am standing in the line of defense.

    Not so long in less then five years I was introduced to the real racial issue, this time it differed from the one I grew watching on television news, from the one I heard being mummed around my community, this was something so real and trust me the real racial issue sleeps at our work place’s.

    And the disease has turned to be a black-on-black road trip. Thus, it doesn’t benefit us to run behind some “racial projects” that are led by those who taught us and welcomed us to this narrow disease. I sit and question myself, that while we are fighting for change and other issues around us, why then are we driving in roads that doesn’t define us? It is like we want to be ONE but we keep our faith in other people’s colour. Gomo, in South Africa colour matters, I am not in support of racism, but at some point most of black leader’s or managers had to show to the superior colour that they can keep a black colour in line or under control, therefore they use their own fear as protection.

    I might be wrong on this one but what is happening in our country won’t die or end any other day. How does it help to see more 50 Blackman and woman matching behind 5 white woman with big bold written boards that speaks “NO TO RACISM” when the issue only matters to them? Well, this is one of the blind mirror we look at and turn to act like we can keep it to ourselves.

    “The son of the slave wife was born in a human attempt to bring about the fulfillment of God’s promise. But the son of the freeborn wife was born as God’s own fulfillment of his promise”
    Galatians 4:23

    We were taught to dislike each other as black but to honor and give a superior respect to the light colour, I wake up today in this beautiful country just to see my black sister wearing make ups, dressing her skin in fine colours so that she could walk tall and have confidence but what we do not understand is that she has killed herself to be someone else.

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